Everybody needs something to look back to because a lot of people would like to feel they have not hit hard bottom. Most people want to feel empowered which is why they would really be able to see to it that they can make it through the night. It’s because there are times when we will need to be strong when challenges come our way. It means allowing ourselves to hold onto something that we would like to be able to use to keep us strong. A lot of people usually take for granted having a healthy self-esteem but that is what matters.
One shouldn’t really take for granted the things that they need to have to see what it takes to just stay positive. It then leads to a pity party that a lot of people wouldn’t really want to talk about or they can end up just wallowing in sadness. I believe that a lot of people really can relate to what I am saying because they know that they should bounce back from these feelings and should not let anyone make them feel this way. We are in touch with our own feelings and we have a choice if we ever want it to be controlled.
A lot of positive people will always talk about the silver lining. It is definitely not easy but the truth is that we should be able to see their point. A lot of songs are also dedicated to being positive through negative dark times. Most of them are written by people who have a felt really in the dark for a while and when they do succeed, they go to extremes just to write about it. Many would think that they were nothing or no one at one time but the truth is that they have just wanted to express themselves.
There are many ways to have hope and it is through changing your own paradigm. That means that most of us hold on to something that we were taught to believe in. Usually, these are paradigms that teach us to survive ergo; these are definitely effective. Though, there are paradigms that allow us to dream, and to reach more a lot of success. These are definitely not easy to live through and through because most people would think that you are naive.
Well, I have to admit that I am one of those people. I am still hanging on to the old paradigms that only allow me to survive but I am also having a difficult time seeing the silver lining. Though, I know that there is a silver lining but I am having a difficult time believing through it constantly. This is because I guess, just like everybody else; I am hanging on to what I have been taught since I was a kid. This then limits myself to experiencing a lot of things I believe I can achieve.
I guess a lot of people do know that hanging on to old memories and beliefs will definitely raise some doubts in yourself. Therefore, in order to have new ones, we should have a break or let go of the things that we were taught to believe in. It’s like jumping in the dark and that is definitely not easy. It would require a strong person to be able to see to it that they can do this. Many think that they can’t do it but the important thing is that one should try. As tough as it is, one should really be able to make sure that they can go through it.